mum's heading back to India

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Mum left to fly back to India today. Right now I miss her very, very much...
The house seems empty. It's going to be different waking up tomorrow and she's not here. I couldn't have done this without her. She flew in just before the operation and stayed till she knew I'd be all right. As 'old' as I am, I'll always be her baby.

Over the past weeks she has nursed me back to health, been patient with me like only a mother can, and we've been able to spend some good time together too. I'm lucky, very, very lucky to have a mother that wonderful.

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